Well they were most certainly not embracing my sexuality as I am a gay man who finds neither of them remotely sexually desirable. What it seems you are actually implying is that Shakira and Jennifer Lopez only act and dress sexual because it is appealing to male admirers and not because they themselves feel a desire to do it. And that is a fascinating question, but ultimately only they can answer for themselves. And I have heard at least JLo imply that she does feel empowered by embracing her sexuality, so I’m taking the lead of what a woman actually said.